12 Months Before

  • Announce your engagement to family and friends and plan an engagement party.
  • Place an engagement announcement in your local newspaper.
  • Sign up for a wedding website to keep your guests informed about event details, area information, etc.
  • Choose a wedding date.
  • Work on the budget.
  • Consider purchasing wedding planning software to organize everything, or hire a wedding consultant to help secure contracts, etc.
  • Choose a location and reserve your ceremony and reception site(s).
  • Begin a rough guest list and compile current addresses.
  • Decide on who you'd like to have as your attendants, including your maid of honor and best man
  • Begin shopping for your wedding gown.
  • Purchase a wedding planning book/journal, or a simple calendar to keep track of important dates and appointments (fittings, showers, etc.).

6-9 Months Before

  • Research and choose one or more bridal gift registry.
  • Order your wedding gown and buy undergarments that you will wear with it (bring these to all fittings).
  • Order other bridal accessories - shoes, gloves and veil.
  • Begin shopping for bridesmaids dresses.
  • Find an officiate who will perform your ceremony.
  • Choose and book ceremony musicians, a wedding band/ DJ, photographer/videographer, caterer and florist.

4-6 Months Before

  • Select and order your wedding invitations, envelopes and thank-you cards.
  • Hire a calligrapher, if desired.
  • Select and purchase wedding favors.
  • Start researching wedding cake pictures and local bakeries for ideas.
  • Book your honeymoon and verify that you have any necessary travel documents including passports and visas.
  • Book a room for your wedding night, if you will be leaving for your honeymoon the next morning.
  • Book accommodations for out-of-town guests.
  • Finalize your guest list and send out save-the-date cards, if using.
  • Print out directions to the ceremony, reception, rehearsal dinner and hotel(s) for guests.
  • Compile a list of area information and things to do for out-of-town guests.
  • Reserve transportation for you and your wedding party to and from the wedding, as well as a bus or trolley for your guests (if necessary).

2-4 Months Before

  • Find out what your state's requirements are for obtaining a marriage license and get blood tests done, if required.
  • Order tuxedos for the groom and groomsmen.
  • Meet with your caterer to discuss the menu and wine list.
  • Meet with your officiate to discuss ceremony details, wording and wedding vows.
  • Select wedding readings.
  • Order your wedding cake.
  • Buy thank-you gifts for your attendants.
  • Shop for a gift for your new spouse-to-be.
  • Select and purchase wedding bands, and have them engraved if desired.
  • Coordinate and choose a location for the rehearsal dinner.
  • Contact party-rental companies for tables, chairs, tents, etc. if necessary.
  • Purchase luggage and other travel necessities and attire for your honeymoon.
  • Order or renew passports if necessary.
  • Schedule an appointment with your dentist if you'd like to have your teeth whitened or cleaned before the wedding.

4-8 Weeks Before

  • Mail invitations out eight weeks prior to the wedding date and send accommodation info to your out-of-town guests.
  • Compile and complete name change documents or purchase a bridal name change kit online. which contains all of the necessary forms to file.
  • Fill out a change of address form at the post office, if necessary.
  • Pick up your marriage license.
  • Have ceremony programs printed.
  • Purchase a guest book and other wedding accessories including toasting glasses, cake knife, ring pillow, etc.
  • Keep your wedding website updated with directions and event details.
  • Choose your hair and make-up stylists and schedule a trial for both; also book appointments to have your hair, make-up and nails done on the day of the wedding.
  • Review insurance information with your fiancé to see if any updates need to be made prior to the wedding (car, home, medical, etc.).
  • Plan a bridal luncheon or dinner with your bridesmaids.

2-4 Weeks Before

  • Create a seating chart for the reception and make place cards (or have your calligrapher work on these, if you have hired one).
  • Contact your caterer with a final guest count.
  • Print out a timeline of events for your wedding party and vendors - include contact information and cell phone numbers.
  • Meet with your photographer and florist to finalize details.
  • Finalize your ceremony and reception music and song list for your wedding band or DJ.
  • Confirm lodging reservations for out-of-town guests.
  • Place a wedding announcement in your local newspaper.
  • Pick up wedding bands and make sure the fit is good.
  • Schedule a final dress fitting.
  • Write rehearsal dinner toasts.

1 Week Before

  • Write out final checks for your minister, organist, DJ or musicians, etc. and organize in envelopes for your wedding coordinator or one of your attendants to distribute at the wedding.
  • Pick up your wedding gown.
  • Confirm limo or other transportation reservations.
  • Pack for your honeymoon and confirm travel arrangements.
  • Have your local post office hold your mail, if necessary, while you are away on your honeymoon.
  • Treat yourself to a spa day -- you deserve it! Check out Spa Finder to find services in your area.

The Day Before

  • Welcome out-of-town guests as they arrive.
  • Take a yoga class or go for a walk during the day.
  • Schedule a hair appointment for prior to the rehearsal dinner.
  • Attend the rehearsal and enjoy the rehearsal dinner!

The Wedding Day

  • Wake up early and do some light exercise, or just go for a peaceful walk outdoors and soak up the beauty of the day ;).
  • Set aside some time before the festivities to exchange gifts with your bridesmaids or close family members.
  • Eat a healthy breakfast - you'll need your energy for the big day ahead!
  • Enjoy it; it's finally here and everything will be wonderful... Congratulations!!