12 Months Before
- Announce your engagement to family
and friends and plan an engagement party.
- Place an engagement announcement in
your local newspaper.

- Sign up for a wedding website to
keep your guests informed about event details, area information,
etc.
- Choose a wedding date.
- Work on the budget.
- Consider purchasing wedding planning
software to organize everything, or hire a wedding consultant to
help secure contracts, etc.
- Choose a location and reserve your
ceremony and reception site(s).
- Begin a rough guest list and compile
current addresses.
- Decide on who you'd like to have as
your attendants, including your maid of honor and best man
- Begin shopping for your wedding
gown.
- Purchase a wedding planning
book/journal, or a simple calendar to keep track of important dates
and appointments (fittings, showers, etc.).
6-9 Months Before
- Research and choose one or more
bridal
gift
registry.
- Order your wedding gown and buy
undergarments that you will wear with it (bring these to all
fittings).
- Order other bridal accessories -
shoes, gloves and veil.

- Begin shopping for bridesmaids
dresses.
- Find an officiate who will perform
your ceremony.
- Choose and book ceremony musicians,
a
wedding
band/
DJ, photographer/videographer, caterer and florist.
4-6 Months Before
- Select and order your wedding
invitations, envelopes and thank-you cards.
- Hire a calligrapher, if desired.
- Select and purchase wedding favors.
- Start researching wedding cake
pictures and local bakeries for ideas.
- Book your honeymoon and verify that
you have any necessary travel documents including passports and
visas.
- Book a room for your
wedding
night, if you will be leaving for your honeymoon the next morning.
- Book accommodations for out-of-town
guests.
- Finalize your guest list and send
out save-the-date cards, if using.
- Print out directions to the
ceremony, reception, rehearsal dinner and hotel(s) for guests.
- Compile a list of area information
and things to do for out-of-town guests.
- Reserve transportation for you and
your wedding party to and from the wedding, as well as a bus or
trolley for your guests (if necessary).
2-4 Months Before
- Find out what your state's
requirements are for obtaining a marriage license and get blood
tests done, if required.
- Order tuxedos for the groom and
groomsmen.
- Meet with your caterer to discuss
the menu and wine list.

- Meet with your officiate to discuss
ceremony details, wording and wedding vows.
- Select wedding readings.
- Order your wedding cake.
- Buy
thank-you
gifts
for your attendants.
- Shop for a
gift
for your new spouse-to-be.
- Select and purchase wedding bands,
and have them engraved if desired.
- Coordinate and choose a location for
the rehearsal dinner.
- Contact party-rental companies for
tables, chairs, tents, etc. if necessary.
- Purchase luggage and other travel
necessities and attire for your honeymoon.
- Order or renew passports if
necessary.
- Schedule an appointment with your
dentist if you'd like to have your teeth whitened or cleaned before
the wedding.
4-8 Weeks Before
- Mail invitations out eight weeks
prior to the wedding date and send accommodation info to your
out-of-town guests.
- Compile and complete name change
documents or purchase a bridal name change kit online. which
contains all of the necessary forms to file.
- Fill out a change of address form at
the post office, if necessary.
- Pick up your marriage license.
- Have ceremony programs printed.
- Purchase a guest book and other
wedding accessories including toasting glasses, cake knife, ring
pillow, etc.
- Keep your wedding website updated
with directions and event details.
- Choose your hair and make-up
stylists and schedule a trial for both; also book appointments to
have your hair, make-up and nails done on the day of the wedding.
- Review insurance information with
your fiancé to see if any updates need to be made prior to the
wedding (car, home, medical, etc.).
- Plan a bridal luncheon or dinner
with your bridesmaids.
2-4 Weeks Before
- Create a seating chart for the
reception and make place cards (or have your calligrapher work on
these, if you have hired one).

- Contact your caterer with a final
guest count.
- Print out a timeline of events for
your wedding party and vendors - include contact information and
cell phone numbers.
- Meet with your photographer and
florist to finalize details.
- Finalize your ceremony and reception
music and song list for your wedding band or DJ.
- Confirm lodging reservations for
out-of-town guests.
- Place a wedding announcement in your
local newspaper.
- Pick up wedding bands and make sure
the fit is good.
- Schedule a final dress fitting.
- Write rehearsal dinner toasts.
1 Week Before
- Write out final checks for your
minister, organist, DJ or musicians, etc. and organize in envelopes
for your wedding coordinator or one of your
attendants to distribute at the wedding.
- Pick up your wedding gown.
- Confirm limo or other transportation
reservations.
- Pack for your honeymoon and confirm
travel arrangements.
- Have your local post office hold
your mail, if necessary, while you are away on your honeymoon.
- Treat yourself to a spa day -- you
deserve it! Check out Spa Finder
to find services in your area.
The Day Before
- Welcome out-of-town guests as they
arrive.
- Take a yoga class or go for a walk
during the day.
- Schedule a hair appointment for
prior to the rehearsal dinner.
- Attend the rehearsal and enjoy the
rehearsal dinner!
The Wedding Day
- Wake up early and do some light
exercise, or just go for a peaceful walk outdoors and soak up the
beauty of the day ;).
- Set aside some time before the
festivities to exchange gifts with your bridesmaids or close family
members.
- Eat a healthy breakfast - you'll
need your energy for the big day ahead!
- Enjoy it; it's finally here and
everything will be wonderful... Congratulations!!
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